Tijuana Whorehouse (Part 01)

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Tijuana Whorehouse (Part 01)I was 43 in 1993 when I went to my first Tijuana whorehouse. I was a well accomplished “whore hound” already, having roamed the streets of San Francisco and Oakland for years. But that didn’t prepare me for what I found “south of the border”.I had flown down to San Diego for a short vacation with an old friend from the Bay Area. He already had some experience with the girls across the border, so I let him be my guide.As we drove down to the border and were crossing it, my friend kept emphasizing that Tijuana is not in the United States, that it was in a different country, so I must remember that my rights as an American mean little down there. This was good advice because I found Mexico in general to be a different reality, not only in terms of its laws but in terms of customs and culture as well. The red light district in Tijuana is along the northern end of Constitution Avenue as it leaves downtown (el Centro) and approaches the Zona Norte near the border. From what I gathered, prostitution was technically i*****l in Mexico, but it functioned openly in Tijuana in a sort of regulated “cocoon”. The cocoon was provided by the Tijuana police who were well paid “to look the other way” while, at the same time, maintained law and order so that the cash kept rolling into the whorehouses.Each illegal bahis whorehouse was a bar with a hotel above it, and the streets around Constitution Avenue were lined with them. The girls always took their dates exclusively to the hotel above the bar that they were working.The most striking difference that I was to find between working girls in Tijuana and those here in the United States is that the Mexican cuties were all generally “good girls” compared to their American counterparts. A lot of that seems due to the difference in cultural attitudes between Mexico and the United Stares in regard to prostitution. The pathetic stereotype of a prostitute here in America is of a d**g addict who must sell her body on the street in order to support her habit. This is an ugly stereotype because there are plenty of American prostitutes who are not d**g addicts but are merely pursuing gainful employment. Nonetheless, my experience with American prostitutes is that they all portray the “bad girl” image to some degree.In Tijuana, this situation was reversed. The stereotype of a Tijuana prostitute was to me of a “good girl” who was simply trying to make a living. In the five years that I consequently spent frequenting Tijuana whorehouses, I saw no indication of d**g activity at all. In fact, the drinks that the illegal bahis siteleri prostitutes drank in the bar were deliberately watered down. I had the feeling that prostitution in Mexico was just another way of making a living, as is being a butcher, a baker, or a candlestick maker. This difference in cultural attitudes toward prostitution between the two countries, along with the abundance of American dollars in Tijuana brought girls into town from all corners of Mexico. I personally dated girls from Mexico City, Guadalajara, Acapulco, and other Mexican cities. The majority of them them were somewhat educated and came from good families. Some were so sexually inexperienced that they had to take their clothes off in the bathroom to avoid the embarrassment of undressing in front of me. For me, this difference between American and Tijuana prostitutes was reflected in my experience with Tijuana girls. Overall, I found Tijuana prostitutes to be a better deal in simple terms of getting what you pay for. Tijuana prostitutes seemed much more business-like and were aware of their duty to deliver a good service. On the other hand, almost all of the American working girls that I’ve dated were primarily interested in completing the date as soon as possible. This business-like approach was even reflected canlı bahis siteleri in the bars on the street level. The girls generally did not approach a man but, instead, waited for a man to approach them. When a match was made, the man generally had the option of either going to the hotel above after one drink or first spending some time with the girl in the bar drinking, talking, and dancing. Almost all the girls in the bars were generally friendly and were willing to talk about themselves.Overall, I must say that my experience with Tijuana prostitutes was a pleasant one. It seemed very much to be a relaxed and natural affair with plenty of opportunity for pleasure, much more so than I had experienced with American girls. However, you might have noticed that my entire narrative so far has been in the past tense. This is because I have no way of knowing if conditions in Tijuana are the same today as they were in the mid-1990’s. I moved to San Diego shortly after my initial vacation there and spent the next thirteen years there. Yet, I stopped crossing the border altogether after the first five years. That is when the street wars between the d**g cartels started heating up. Going into the late 1990’s, the d**g v******e on the streets of Tijuana got so bad that many regular visitors stopped crossing the border altogether. This rapid reduction of tourism in Tijuana was sure to cause changes in the tourist driven business of Tijuana prostitution, but what those changes were I have no idea. Joe Kulik … Vallejo, California USA … [email protected]

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